Tuesday 10 July 2018

Promises

Last week, my university sponsor called me up and she sounded like she had bad news. "Lisa, we can only pay for your books and tuition. (We cannot give you a living allowance.)" Uh... Thank you very much! I was happy and grateful for it.

I had been thinking about university for a while and when I finally called them to ask about sponsorship on June 22, I found out their cutoff for funding applications was June 30. I had one week to pay my registration and get all the information together to meet the funding deadline, with no guarantees.

I ran into a snag when I found out that it would be several weeks before I would receive the transcripts from my G.E.D. needed to submit the funding application. I am in Alberta, Canada. To help me meet the deadline, a woman who works at the place where the transcripts were said she would send and informal email to my potential sponsor BUT, and this was a big but, I needed to go in person to pay the fee and hand in the request form. The transcripts were in Regina, Saskatchewan.

There were three prospective people that might be able to help, an aunt, a cousin, and a friend. The aunt never returned my text and the cousin didn't respond until it was too late. I downloaded the form. This was on the Saturday. It turned out that my friend worked close to the address I needed to hand in the form and fee. She was leaving to vacation on the Tuesday. She said she could do this transaction for me before 4PM on the Monday.

Now it was back in the hands of the would-be sponsor. She called me up to ask for a program list and description. I was able to provide everything required. Then I never heard anything from her. I tried calling her and could not reach her until the day she called to tell me there would be no living allowance.

That day, she said the decision would be made on Thursday the 5th of July as to who would be receiving school funding. Throughout this whole process, she has been really great.

Now, the university had a cutoff date of July 10 to be registered to begin courses on August 1st. I was already fingers crossed to be selected for funding. Things were looking good for me and my anticipation was high as I had been helped toward my goal already with the friend in Regina and the woman at the transcripts place.

I called on the 6th, which was a Friday, to find out if there was any word on the funding decision. I could not get in contact with anyone. I called on the Monday, with course registration due on the 10th, Tuesday. Yes! I found I was accepted and approved for books and tuition. Still, I needed to be registered for my courses on another tight deadline.

With assistance from my sponsor and the university, we three were able to get me into every course I selected with almost 24hs to spare. All of this happened in little over two weeks.

In The Program, one of The Promises is,

We will suddenly realize that God is doing for us what we could not do for ourselves.

Surely this is one of those times.




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Lisa L'Heureux is the author of 7 books. Her work includes the Lisa's Sober Blog SeriesThis and the Man in the Moon and This One is About Domestic Violence. She lives with her family in Alberta, Canada.

More than six years ago, Lisa retired from practicing alcoholism.

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Tuesday 22 May 2018

Getting Jiggy With It

I have been working in the garden the past couple days. The weeds and hot sun mix to remind me of not so nice memories, which makes me think of potentially negative things that are happening. I let my mind wander from topic to topic that has to do with life, past, present and future. I try to work out solutions to problems. I like to think of wildly outlandish solutions. It's a good work-out, mind and body!

I spent May long weekend at the Sheraton Cavalier Hotel in Calgary. I took photos of family swimming in the pool and sliding down the waterslide. I lounged in the room, ordered room service, and crunched down a nice green salad when it was delivered to me. In the mornings, I went to the club room and sat eating my breakfast while looking out at the mountains and in the forefront Calgary downtown skyline. Best of all, the room was free to me (us). I like to think, a gift, for being such a good girl. I prefer to be at home but it was a nice break.

On Saturday, I went to see the new Jumanji. This is a remake of an older movie, with a fresh spin and great funny characters. I thoroughly enjoyed it, except for a couple of scenes that were scary and gross! It was quite violent but for some reason done in such a way that it was amusing. Some scenes were definitely laugh out loud. A couple of the characters did some acting which was a lot different than I have ever seen them do.

I also went to the Calgary Zoo. The walkways were packed when we got there. The weather was hot. I think I remembered some far-back memories of taking my firstborn there many years ago. I am sure I know why I haven't been there since. I especially don't like crowds when I have children with.

All in all, it was worth living all this time to be there for that. After having drank myself practically to death, I am usually amazed when I am well enough to do anything at all. To be sober too, I didn't think I was going to make it. There are some life events that I am pushing for. I want to believe that things are going to continue to work out for me.

I recently started following an old acquaintance on Instagram. The acquaintance does yoga now. The last time I heard anything about him, he'd torn a tendon in his leg. He used to do a really physically taxing job which he quit after hurting himself, I think. When I saw what he has been doing to his body with the yoga, I was inspired.

Ultimately, it's about getting jiggy with life! There are moments when I would like to just give up but then I remember what I have been through and the moments that have brought me to this. The inspirators and the instigators. I know that I can make it another day. More than that, I know I can even have enjoyment in at least one moment. One breath.

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More than six years ago, Lisa retired from practicing alcoholism.

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Monday 29 January 2018

Freedom


For me, freedom is...

  1. Not having to do any drugs for mental stimulation or recreation.
  2. Being able to leave my house whenever I want. 
  3. Not having to do anything I do not want to. 
  4. Choosing the people I want to be around. 
  5. Being able to write whatever I want. 
  6. Not having to have a drink today. 
  7. Privilege to own any books I like. 
  8. Having a variety of foods to eat. 
  9. Having everything I need. 
  10. Having more than I need. 
  11. Having my own money. 
  12. Going out with friends. 
  13. Going to visit friends. 
  14. Wearing makeup. 
  15. Exercising. 
  16. Learning. 
  17. Dancing. 
  18. Walking. 
  19. Talking. 
  20. Loving. 

Sometimes it may seem like slow going but keep on working toward whatever you are working on. Today is a good day to renew goals, affirm dreams, and reestablish footing on the trait. Be grateful for the little things.


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While you are here,

Lisa L'Heureux is the author of 7 books. Her work includes the Lisa's Sober Blog SeriesThis and the Man in the Moon and This One is About Domestic Violence. She lives with her family in Alberta, Canada.

More than six years ago, Lisa retired from practicing alcoholism.

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